Posted by Kimmie on September 12, 2004 at 14:00 [24.67.253.203]
I was thinking things over last night, and I came to a conclusion that I hadn't thought of before. I was pondering the question as to why women have so much trouble interacting and gaining a positive experience from being a part of or contributing to the AB community.
What dawned on me was something I had never considered before and it wouldnt have happened had I not posted a particular picture yesterday.
Up until now I've been reluctant to post any picture which showed my 'goods' so to speak. Even when I had our paysite, it was something i rarely did, and when I did, it was only brief glimpses or half a shot. The reason being was that I've always felt it would make me slutty or a whore if I exposed my sexual parts. That being said I beleive a lot of women feel that way. To include overt sexuality in the way they contribute makes them feel slutty. So while wanting to contribute to the community for attention or loneliness or whatever they would probably choose to remove or seperate sexuality from anything they contribute in the first place just out of simple fear of being thought of as something they are not.
Removing all sexuality and still trying to interact with anyone in this fetish is pretty tricky, you're not left with much to work with. You must confine yourself to dealing with opinions and emotions or even the politics of the community.
That would explain why so many women fall into a bad situation when it comes to interacting and enjoying themselves. When ever anyone be it man or woman gets involved with opinions, or someone's feelings there is bound to be turmoil surrounding it.
I believe most women refuse to be involved at all. They pass by, and just browse but never say anything at all. Perhaps I should have stayed on that level...more than once I've wished I had. However; I'm here now (for the most part). Mostly I think women like to draw their own conclusions and save them for themselves. It's easier for a woman to have access for their need to be babied than it is for a man. Sex is something dark and forbiden. It's something you been taught not to enjoy because it means your a whore if you do.
I remember ditching my best friend in grade 3 because she used to kiss boys when they least expected it. lol! All of the girls in my class completely alienated her because she thought it was exciting to chase boys and kiss them. It starts so early; being ashamed of your sexuality.
Anyway, just think about that guys next time you run into the diaper girl of your dreams online. She's probably dragging guilt and shame with her for being there; on top of the shame of actually liking diapers. Maybe you'll all try to be a little nicer to her when you speak to her, maybe you'll understand why she wants to talk about anything else besides what she likes to do in her diapers.
Anyway I just thought I would share MY OPINION on this.
Bow down
Bow down
Bow down with your life
Head down, head down
head down; hide that smile
Head high, head high
Head high:
You've got to smile.