Posted by Dark Prince on January 04, 1999 at 22:11
Hello, it's me again, the guy who doesn't post very often. I need your help. I have wanted to tell my wife about the whole pee thing for awhile now, but haven't been able to work up enough guts to do so. Last night, I ran across a peeing picture of a woman who looks similiar to her, wetting herself in the same types & styles of clothes she wears. This was a huge turn on for me, because, while it was not really my wife, it was very easy to put my wife's head on that body. This made me want to tell her even more.
Here's the problem: I am afraid to do it. Now, before I hear any "She's your wife, just tell her" remarks, keep in mind that we're both young (early 20's) and haven't been married two years yet. I am STILL getting to know her, and vice versa, and it's been hard enough for me to admit I enjoy this to myself - let alone admitting it to the woman I love. I don't want it to screw anything up. NOBODY knows I am into this, well nobody but you people, and you don't really know who I am so it doesn't matter. :)
I have tried dropping subtle hints - every time she has to pee, she announces it, and she knows I will try to hug her/tickle her before she can make it to the bathroom. She'll start watching me closely, and will take off running at any sign of my approaching when she has to pee. I've caught her a few times, but have never tickled her for very long. The only time I have EVER seen her wet her pants was twice in the same day - and she doesn't know I know. (at least I don't think so) I came home from work and found some peed shorts in the hamper; just before bed, she went to the bathroom and when I went minutes later there was another pair of shorts on the floor with a quarter-sized pee spot. Both were definitely pee. From that day forward I have checked the laundry every chance I get, but have never come across anything else. Here's the odd thing: On the day she wet herself twice, I noticed (later that evening) that a wet jeans picture I had looked at the night before had accidentally been left in my start/documents folder! I figured she found it and was trying to tell me something, but she never wet again, and (don't laugh) I didn't have the balls to bring any of it up. A day after this incident, I mentioned that I saw a woman at a store wet her pants, and wasn't that interesting, a grown woman wetting herself? My wife didn't say a THING. She immediately changed the subject. (I made sure to use the word "Interesting", not gross/weird/etc) I said the exact same thing to some friends later that night (in my wife's presence), and a buddy and I debated whether or not she REALLY wet herself for a minute or two, but other than that, no other comments were made. (Although, and this surprised me, NOBODY said "That's sick!" - they all said "Hmmm" or "Wow" or "Really?")
I have tried (three times) wetting my pants ever-so-slightly, then leaving them in the hamper to see if she would notice. If she did, she never said a thing, but they probably dried out before she did the laundry.
So, how do I tell her without coming right out and TELLING her? Do you think I should leave a link to a picture or two in my documents folder again, or perhaps a bookmark to a wet site? I have also been debating "stumbling" across a wet site, commenting "Look at this, a place for adults who like to wet their pants, how interesting", then asking her what her thoughts on it are. Plain and simple, I cannot tell her unless I have an "out". I need to be able to make something up & get out of it if she freaks out. ("I just said it was INTERESTING, I didn't say I wanted to DO it!" - "I stumbled across that picture on the Internet and wanted to show it to a friend, to see what he said", etc) Believe me, I have TRIED to come out and tell her. I've tried for the last year and a half, and I can't do it. If I thought I could figure this out on my own, I wouldn't be here asking you for help. I really, really think she might dig it, but I also know that when people really want something to happen, they see and feel things that don't really exist. I want her to wet her pants for me on a regular basis SO BAD, I even questioned her wet shorts that one fine day over and over and over again. I sat there, looked at them, smelled them, and smelled them again. I went back to the hamper no less than 10 times to reconfirm what I had seen. Every time, they were there, they smelled like pee, and it was in a perfect pattern. It's like she just stood there and wet herself.
Please, if any of you have any ideas on what I can do to find out for sure if she is into it, please post them! I also would love to hear about how people have told their significant others about this, and the reactions they have come across. I appreciate it. You don't know how much this means to me.