Posted by SUBDUDE on January 05, 1999 at 01:26
In Reply to: How to tell wife? posted by Dark Prince on January 04, 1999 at 22:11
I really dont think you will have a problem with this, you just gotta take it small steps at a time.
i am not married but i have had quite a few serious relationships and eventually all of them got into peeing..but showing them this board early in the piece is not a good idea esp if she thinks you have been discussing her with the whole fucking net world!
here some ideas for ya ..all of these ideas worked for me but it took me a while to bring it up but
it always seemed to work eventually
#1 having sex first thing in the morning before she goes to pee might work..try to get her in the mood before she gets up and goes and hopefully she might just be desperate as most women are at that time.if shes says she has to pee in the middle of it mention that you really want to keep going coz it feels really good 'right now' and it feels a little 'different than normal' with a bit of luck it may feel a little different for her too and she may enjoy it. most every girl i have been with has liked sex better on a full bladder..they say they can feel 'everything better and bigger!'it wont all happen the first time but eventually you will get one morning where she may just pee a bit while having orgasm esp if she is on top. make sure you make it seem like everything is really cool if she does..its a good start and actually i think she may not even know if she has peed or not!
#2this always works well...ask her what REALLY turns her on and what fantasy she likes and do whatever it is for her..eventualy she is gonna reciprocate and say what gets you really going. well now this is where you have to be patient. you have say things like "i'll tell you another time / its a little different/ you've probably never heard of it before/ you may not like it at first/
BUT it is harmless non violent and i know for a fact that it is not THAT weird coz other peolpe do it![ you gotta remember that for years i really thought that i was the only person into this wetting / despewration thing in the world ..i couldn't talk to any friends about it and i never found anything in mags or papers or even videos about it ecxept golden showers which didnt interest me at all..i really like the desperation part NOT the actual peeing..so it was not until only last year that i discovered patches and wet set and lo and behold theres a whole bunch of us here in the world.. holy shit.. i'm not a twisted sexual freak after all!]now geting back to where i was.. i had to get my girlfriend of the time to do these things that i thought NO ONE else in the world did, so i figured it would be hard.
any way eventually you gotta tell her that what REALLY makes you hot is...."i would like to make love to you while you are desperate to pee>>>>...usually greeted with a long silence and ..oh i see.....mmm i've never heard about that but yeah i;ll give it a try if you like it that much!
now from here on in you gotta be careful ..dont ever let on if you've done it before with someone else..you gotta make it YOUR OWN THING.just between you and her and no one else will ever know! dont mention desperation or watching or sniffing peed panties at all YET. one night you gotta aranged for her to get desperate[can't miss with beer and ask her not to go to the toilet...first time she's gonna play it safe and not be REALLY desperate but next time or the time after that she will be and there will be a time where she REALLY gets desperarte and will probably wet her self.. this is where you got to tell her how much you like seeing her need to go and how much it turns you on..from here on in it gets easier and before you know it she may just be playing the getting desperate in public stuff and changing her panties at parties[this is the stuff i love] any way these ideas may work
i have never asked a girl strait out "piss on me" it just wont work .i reckon you'll do alright.
hope it helps dude!
subdude[not the only desperation/pee lover in the world after all!]
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