Posted by Kimmie on September 23, 2004 at 17:18 [24.67.253.203]
In Reply to: Ladies...Don't Be So Cruel posted by The Voice Of Reason on September 23, 2004 at 02:15
Ok so I see your point about being excited about something new. However there's a difference like Kristen said.
Wanting or trying to get sexual gratifacation from someone is a little different than just appreciating and wanting to speak.
Nothing makes me happier than meeting and speaking to people and having fun. I don't need to be asked for sex though.
I dont even mind if we're talking and someone asks me if I'm wearing right now, and if they're wet or something like that. That doesn't bother me so much as guys who persistantly IM me telling me they need to be with me, they need a mommy, asking for advice about their life, the list goes on and on. They just dont seem to get the idea that they wouldnt behave that way in real life, for some reason they think its ok on the interenet. It isnt!
They just want a quick way to get off, and they're not interested in really getting to know you. They just pretend they care to listen so they can get everything they want from you.
I dont IM people with out asking first. It's the equivelent of pulling someone aside and talking to them privately at a party or gathering. But these losers who do that can't seem to understand that.
I dont give out my email address cause I know it would be 20 times worse than talking on a messenger.