Posted by Lloyd on September 27, 2000 at 01:56
In Reply to: embarrassed of my WS fetish posted by Bunnie on September 26, 2000 at 19:14
Bunnie,
All of us at some time have to learn to live with other people's opinions and views of us. It's a fact of life that not everyone will like you, and not everyone will think that you are "normal" for want of a better word. Just get used to it. There are many people now who know that I like peeing my pants and that I like relationships with women who do the same. Many of the people who know this are those women with whom I have shared such relationships. I assume that some of them have told partners, friends, etc, and that the word may have gotten around that I'm into something that's quite kinky or even just sick to most people. I've learnt to live with the fact that there may be any number of people who have heard some rumours. I'm a musician and the musical world is unbelievably small. Most of my wet companions have been from the musical world, so I have no doubt that there is some knowledge of my particular style of eroticism out there. I can't do anything about it and I really don't care, because it can't really hurt me, and in fact, it could be that a woman may hear about it who would like to meet someone like me, and perhaps this could be the means to a happy relationship.
My advice to you is that you should just accept that people are all different, that you are OK by your own way of thinking. If these people think that something as inconsequential as peeing your pants over a bathtub is actually important in the scheme of things, then they are not to be bothered with. I think it's far more important whether YOU think peeing your pants over a tub is important and why. If you, YOURSELF, feel it's sick, then you should consider stopping. You can't change the past, but you can certainly change the future. If you feel you can't stop, then that's a different matter, but you certainly shouldn't let other mean little people's opinions bother you!