Posted by professional on September 26, 2000 at 20:45
In Reply to: embarrassed of my WS fetish posted by Bunnie on September 26, 2000 at 19:14
You may need to think this through deeper. It has been my experiance that this fetish develops more in rebellion to others accusations of sinfulness, or wickedness or especially shamefulness.
It is not you who should feel humiliated. It is them. And in fact you will find that they are - deeply ashamed of themselves and that is why they latch on to this. They are trying to bring you down to their level.
This fetish is more often about becoming natural or one with the world. And even more often becomeing one with the world despite others. Our actions may sometimes seem to be self-demeaning, childish, and silly, but are at their source a way of reaching beyond these things.
Learning to overcome your fears of humiliation is a part of it. Other weaker people will lie cheat and even die in somecases to avoid humiliation. We are able to move beyond this, shedding our limitations of mind. And why souldn't sex be involved with this.
You are better then them - you are more aware- they are more ignorant, and its their souls that are blackening, and yours is becoming lighter as you explore yourself and discover yourself.
In the end if you stay true their mischivious comments will cease to be important. Don't give them any power they don't deserve.
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