Posted by wetfan on April 29, 2002 at 11:03
In Reply to: Are there any REAL girls here? posted by Phoenix-X on April 27, 2002 at 06:21
Hello,
Personally I think this is totally the wrong way to go about meeting someone romantically. You have to keep in mind what this place is all about. When you get right down to it, it's a porn site.
Okay now before I get flamed, I know it's not a typical "spread your legs" porn site, and for many of us it's a sort of wetting community where we can finally be ourselves. But lets not forget this is a sexual fetish and this site provides a sexual outlet.
So with that in mind, let's think about the sort of people that come to porn sites? Men. Men statistically will buy, read and view more sexual material then women. So it only stands to reason that men are going to out number the ladies here.
The other thing to keep in mind is how women work. I certainly don't claim to understand them, but I do know that if you were to ask a lady to have a sexual relationship with you, you're more likely to receive a slap then a "sure, you're place or mine?"
Now I'm not saying that those here looking to talk with or meet other kindred sprints just want to do it for wet sex, BUT you are asking a women to build, from the ground up, a friendship or relationship based on a shared sexual fetish. Not many are going to be interested in that. That is like building a new friendship or romance on a shared interest in oral sex. Sex (wet or otherwise) is only part of a romance, not the only thing. I think you'd do better to build a good romantic base with someone and then "convert" them into wetters.
Why men would pose as women I can't explain. The only thing I can think of is that they are either gay and enjoy hearing your experiences, or they get some sick enjoyment from messing around with you.
As for women being here. Yeah I think there are a lot that come by, but I think far more lurk then post. Does anyone remember ppPanties? She used to post here alot. I actually met her while in a regular-joe chatroom (non sexual). I was chatting and admitted my fetish and she sent a private message saying she liked that too. I then told her about wetset and she came here. I think most people looking for someone into wetting to talk with, would probably do better somewhere off the "porn" sites. Chatrooms are good, but not porn ones. I've "come out of the wet closet" alot in chatrooms, and have had nice conversations with women who ask to learn about this fetish and sometimes even get a little into it. But that is because I've spoken to them as friends first, not "I like desperation and wetting and if you do too, contact me".
The long as short of my babble is..
1) Yes there are ladies out there, though many probably choose not to post.
and
2) If you want to meet someone in your area into wetting to meet or talk to, don't use this site to find them. Choose a local personals web ad, or chatroom.
Take care