Posted by Babydoc on December 27, 1998 at 13:50
In Reply to: addiction/compulsion, and recovery posted by eliminatrix on December 27, 1998 at 04:31
An interesting view, and it may help explain the reason for the post, which is rather unclear. My own pee-surfing activities tapered off after a month or two, as my curiosity became satisfied, and as I realised that the excitement I can get from reading about it is limited. I need to actually find a live partner in order to have the kind of fun I'm after, so I seldom go to the chatrooms any more. I assumed that was pretty much the norm.
If peeing is the focus of most of her fantasies, then it's unrealistic (and unnecessary and maybe unhealthy) to try to ignore those feelings altogether. If time is the main reason for quitting, as she says, then it may be a good idea to eliminate the most time-consuming pee-related activity, ie chat rooms. Scanning this site and a couple of others provides the best turn-on with the least effort. Surely no more than 1/2 to 1 hour per day. But trying to eliminate one's primary turn-on from one's life seldom works, and usually causes problems. Freud wasn't entirely wrong, just mostly.
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