Posted by J on December 26, 1998 at 21:58
In Reply to: um....I like it a LOT ... posted by Alicia on December 25, 1998 at 21:23
It takes a long, long time to feel ok about this
stuff. For some it is just a matter of
realizing you are "wired" a certain way, for
others maybe the idea that sex is like a
buffet, there's lots of different stuff to eat.
Not everbody likes everything, and it's OK to
try new stuff if you feel like it.
There's a pretty big societal no-no associated
with the w/s thing - in fact only one person
knows about me, who happens to be my wife.
But if you want to gently explore the issue
I think most men would be receptive, of at
least you could try to gage the reactions by
looking at their responses to some ideas or
images. Testing the *ahem* waters so to
speak.
Next time rent the movie "Personal Best"
with (am I right here?) Mariel Hemmingway
where she asks her buddy if she can hold his
cock (er, oops, penis) when he goes in to pee.
See if he reacts, and offer to emulate.