Posted by tennis girl on December 17, 1998 at 16:34
In Reply to: Re: Email address??? posted by Lloyd on December 17, 1998 at 14:39
I'm sorry if I offended you and I'm sure you meant well. But look. Just by me simply asking him to promise not to disclose my e-mail address its led to this type of second guessing. Its one thing to remind me to be careful which I appreciate. Its another to question why I'm even here and to suggest I should share all my experiences for everyone to read after I've said I'd rather not.
I have my reasons for reading this board and for thinking about writing to him(which I haven't yet)and for not wanting to share my experiences for everyone to read. But questioning my motives, telling me what I should and shouldn't do, and claiming that what I do makes no sense given how I feel is not what I consider to be very supportive. Maybe it does to you but it doesn't to me. And how do you even know how I feel?? You don't. You can't possibly know how I feel just like I can't know how you feel. But I'm not questioning why you're here or suggesting what you should and shouldn't do or saying that what you're doing makes no sense. But just because what I do doesn't make sense to you, you need to tell me what I should do and question why I'm here in the first place and say that what I do makes no sense. So what if I had actually shared a personal experience?? Thats why I'm hesitant to write to this board. I hope I'm starting to make sense, yes??
Again, I'm sorry if I offended you because I'm sure you meant well. And please understand that I wouldn't have even responded here if I didn't care that you at least understand how I feel and that I wasn't trying to be mean.
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