Posted by dad2u on April 05, 2010 at 09:10 [66.122.12.196]
In Reply to: Pro Daddies? posted by Curious on April 02, 2010 at 10:10
Usually, someone is considered a professional when they get paid for what they do, such as athletes. I do not get paid to be a Daddy, nor would I want to, but I do deal only with AB girls who lost their childhood to abuse. For them, this is a way to finally have the childhood they missed out on and to deal with the abuse and related problems such as low self esteem, lost trust, and even depression or substance abuse. A girl can base her future relationships on what she saw or experienced growing up... if she saw her mother abused, there is a chance she may also choose an abuser because this is what she knows, this can become her "norm." Almost all of the women I have helped have managed to struggle through Adolescence, did fairly well through school, blocking out the past, only to have it resurface later in life when relationships would turn intimate. This is why I choose to be just a daddy to these women, not a BF. The AB play provides a non threatening way for them to come to terms with their past and to learn the skills that will enable them to move on in life. Why do I choose these " relationships" ? It gives some sense of purpose to the abuse I went through growing up. When you can take what you survived and use it to help others, then it can no longer hurt you.
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