Posted by dad2u on April 06, 2010 at 16:44 [63.193.188.21]
In Reply to: Re: Pro Daddies? posted by TareB on April 05, 2010 at 19:18
I have been a daddy now for the better part of 14 years. I started meeting people (ABs) on IRC then in RL after a stay in the hospital gave me the chance to actually meet one. Since then, I have met people who were in it for various reasons, some longed for the comfort and security they felt as children, others wore them later in life after being punished with them as a child... go figure, Some people saw them in a sexual way, many personal reasons. After meeting quite a few over the years, I saw the "past abuse" wasn't that uncommon. What I did find was that most of these girls felt they never really had much of a childhood and the diapers for them were a way to try and get back what they missed out on. This is where I found myself somewhat different then most. While I too lost this piece of my life to abuse, I had no wishes to relive it... I found peace in taking what I've learned and using it to help others. For me, it's the only kind of relationship I want these days, The level of trust between a daddy and BabyGirl is unlike most "vanilla" relationships. I have spent many nights trying to figure it all out myself ! I think the main reason for my choice to help others is the result of growing up in an alcoholic family. Even as a child, I had to be the "responsible" one. I cared for my parents til they passed away, now I care for others....the big difference is that now I feel that my help is appreciated. As I pointed out before, I am just a daddy to these women.. a lot of their past abuse was sexual so I wouldn't be helping them if our relationship was any more then parent/ child.
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