Posted by Papa Surf on March 05, 2009 at 19:40 [75.22.82.119]
In Reply to: Trust issues, how to get over them, and how a dadd posted by Abigail on March 03, 2009 at 00:36
My lg had some serious trust issues we are still dealing with. We had to learn what you seem to need to learn; it's a two way street. My lg and I are both about the same age(in our 20s) so the dynamic is a bit different I'm sure, but trust comes from within no matter what your age. Sure, people need to earn trust, but you have to decide to give it to them at some point.
As far as a relationship being sexual, that's what most adult relationships are. You need to define the context of your sexuality with your partner in a way that it satisfying and comfortable for both of you. If it's not during your lg time, that's fine. Establish that. Don't promise things you aren't comfortable with, but at the same time your if your daddy goes out of his way to satisfy you in some way(sexually, or otherwise) it behooves you to do the same.
This is my first post(I suppose my second will be an introduction after I'm done here) but I hope it helps.
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