Posted by A. on January 06, 2009 at 17:34 [24.172.165.195]
In Reply to: Feeling anxious posted by Kitty on January 06, 2009 at 11:14
... but I've watched enough jealousy/inadequacy issues in friend's wives and lovers ruin marriages, and this seems another in this model. This will seem harsh (like most of the things I post, I guess), but I suppose it gives me a target for some angst I feel over my own friend's experiences.
Don't let your desire to collect multiple partners deprive your lovers of the additional companionship they need.
Prove that you're a bigger person than all of this and mature enough for the polyamorous relationship you feel you deserve. Your age role doesn't entitle you to behave as a jealous, petulant brat in these sorts of cases... especially given your well-enough known "advertised mono-role, really a switch with Daddy, pro with clients" status, the point of mentioning which is say: we know you that lifestyle baby is just a marketing gimmick.
sincerely,