Posted by E's Daddy on December 21, 2008 at 19:29 [76.103.175.35]
In Reply to: Re: Girls who can "pass" posted by L.E. on December 21, 2008 at 12:19
You are kidding right?
"I was not trying to be personally insulting,only to question a mentality...questioning how she could court self-damage unless she was a cynic."
I call bullshit on this. First the original post:
"Kitty's biggest "tell" though is her lip ring. She got it in college because no one would take her seriously (they all thought she was 14 years old). But when that ring slips behind the shield of her pacifier, it's startling how young she looks."
How can responding to that bit of the original post with the following series of comments and questions not be construed as insulting?:
1. "I would NEVER let an AB/LG of mine get a lip ring (or a tattoo)..."
First you begin your insults by implying that he is not a good Daddy because his girl has a lip pierce.
2. "... or bother pursuing ageplay with any girl who already had such a thing,assuming I'd date her in the first place."
Then you insult his little girl by implying that her pierce is so monstrously horrible that you'd never pursue her, much less date her in the first place.
Then you continue on by insulting them both again!
3. "(What sort of Daddy would tolerate body-mods on a little one?"
Once again you imply that he is a bad Daddy.
"Who but a cynic would court such self-damage?)"
4. Here you are insulting his little girl again! And seriously, do you even know what a cynic is? Even if we were to say that being a cynic was somehow a horrible thing, you then insult everyone who may be into body-moding as being one of these so called horrible cynics.
Then you come on later and try to explain yourself by saying this?
"I was not trying to be personally insulting,only to question a mentality...questioning how she could court self-damage unless she was a cynic."
Bullshit! Perhaps you are not trying to be personally insulting, but you are doing an excellent job of it anyway by once again calling into question both his and her "mentality", and implying again that she is self destructive and a cynic. Yes, it's a semi-round-about way of doing it, but you may as well have written "I think you are a bad daddy and your little girl is so fu*#ed up that I wouldn't touch her with a ten foot pole".
You are totally allowed to have an opinion, but the way you have chosen to express it is extremely disrespectful and just plain insulting, not only to him and his little girl, but whole swaths of the general population who may have, or enjoy on others, any kind of piercing or body modification.
Finally, you try to deflect your insults by throwing in a "boo-hoo" moment at the end in which you lament your lack of luck in turning a "correspondence student" into a real life relationship. Sorry, but you don't get to insult people and then expect them, or someone who respects them (especially not a real-life Daddy Dom who has a real-life little girl) to not respond just because you can't manage to figure out how to have a real relationship yourself (hint: it has almost nothing to do with "luck").
You can continue to hope all you want, but if this is the way you normally communicate with people, you are going to a whole lot more "luck" than I think I've ever seen anyone have.