Posted by cuddlemonkey on December 07, 2008 at 21:37 [96.248.230.117]
In Reply to: Need daddy help posted by LilKimmy on December 07, 2008 at 14:09
Perhaps he needs more guidance on how to interact with you when you are in little mode. Have you tried suggesting specific behaviors or describing to him in detail how you want him to take care of you?
If he really doesn't get how you feel, you need to tell him. He is your husband and you need to be able to calmly and lovingly assert your desires to him, just as he needs to give a good go at fulfilling them. It's probable that if he's in it mostly for the sexual part, that he's clueless as to the needs of an AB who does it primarily for emotional reasons.
Also, if your needs are getting neglected, why not try to schedule some playtime in advance where you agree that the focus is solely on daddy/baby play?
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