Posted by cuddlemonkey on November 30, 2008 at 21:24 [96.248.230.117]
In Reply to: I guess I'm... posted by A. on November 30, 2008 at 20:50
A, as you and i have talked at some length about the matter of 'lifestyle' elsewhere, i won't regurgitate other than to remind you that our views are pretty similar. i will however state that since i do personally get flamed for various types of not being a 'real' fill-in-the-blank, that such hostility is a concern, and not one that i have ever seen taken seriously by the men on this board, who seem to think it perfectly fine to universalize their personal preferences to requirements for the entirety of femalekind.
my previous comment about hostility is related not just to the thread in question but to the general shift in tone the board has experienced lately. i remember when this was a safe space for people to converse, share ideas, and meet each other, rather than a safe space for angry, sexually-frustrated men to vent their hostility towards women who do not match their fantasy ideal. is it so strange that i miss the cordial, girl-friendly environment where differences were respected? or is that simply too much of a value judgment?
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