Posted by LG in Manhattan on July 14, 2007 at 09:53 [24.185.67.251]
In Reply to: Worth and Esteem posted by Zorro on July 13, 2007 at 21:32
Nobody wanted anything from her. She didn’t have to live up to any standard of how she dressed, how she took care of herself, how she walked, how she spoke, how she was to be have …
On the surface at least I disagree with this statement because it sounds like an abdication of adult responsibility which is not what the little girl thing is about for me. However this statement can also be read as an indicator of unconditonal love and I know that at least in my case I do seek that-most probably because any love I received from my father was anything but unconditional. I find dating, even limiting it to kink, to be very painful because naturally adult love does not function this way and before I can stop myself I can't seem to help but take the guy's lack of interest as an indicator that I am not good enough. It actually leads me into masochism because physical pain is so much easier to deal with than emotional pain. For example I am house sitting for an ex while he goes on vacation with his current girlfriend and even though I don't want to be with him any more, it still brought up the painful memories of having trusted him and how that whole lg experience was less than positive. Added to that I know another daddy who I like very much but for several reasons we never get together.
I know that a lot of daddies are into spanking but I could never mix the gentleness that i really want with pain. In little girl mode the last thing I want to do is upset daddy or make him angry in any way. The masochism is about no emotional at all--no real connection between me and the person who does it. Just the pain. I wonder if other little girls see it this way.
A time when all she wanted was a strong pair of arms to hold her as she drifted off to sleep. When all she needed was to know she was safe, and to know that she was loved.
I agree with wholeheartedly. That's all I want.
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