Posted by Glad to help on October 07, 2007 at 15:05 [68.192.140.228]
In Reply to: Re: Warning to Men: posted by Jax Daddy on October 07, 2007 at 06:42
>>>> Jax Daddy wrote: "But why does it always have to be about BDSM? Why can't it just be about a loving relationship?"
Well that came out of left field. I hope you don't imply that a BDSM-based relationship can't be loving. If so, then you're absolutely wrong about that.
For me, BDSM is de rigeur. But different strokes for different folks. Many people enjoy kinky *LOVING* relationships in the absence of BDSM. So its "not always about BDSM" nor did I ever suggest so.
I can only offer you anecdotes about me and my experiences, which happen to be with submissive women. Take what you will from my experiences; leave the rest. But if you can't see past my BDSM interests to glean some lesson from my experiences, then I can't help you.
Though as my moniker suggests, I do aim to help, and I'm always glad to do so.
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