Posted by Glad to help on October 09, 2007 at 22:02 [68.192.140.228]
In Reply to: Re: Warning to Men: posted by Calle on October 09, 2007 at 16:16
Very nicely said all the way around. In retrospect, I think you're correct about the context of Jax Daddy's reply. And I also think your flexible approach to others self-definitions is spot on. One other interesting thing you wrote:
>>>> Calle wrote: "Sometimes the standards of "love" vary from couple to couple."
Agreed. Though to take your comment one step further to a tangent level, sometimes "love" isn't the end goal in a kinky relationship. For some, lust, anger or hate or disinterest are the end goals, and can be as equally enjoyable, erotic and "healthy" (a grossly overrated characteristic) as love is to those who make it their end goal.
I mention this because (based on the language and tone of many posts here and other ABDL list-groups) I suspect that most ABDL's, (particularly ABies) and their caregivers are under the misconception that every successful such relationship *must* be loving or centered around love. That is a myth. It does not.
I really appreciated your post Calle. :)
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