Posted by Babygirl86 on December 12, 2009 at 02:48 [99.173.139.132]
In Reply to: Different POV posted by Glad to help on December 10, 2009 at 22:49
I'm not gonna lie - I hoped that he would see how much I was worried right here, because he visits these forums often.
But I am wishing to become a kink-aware professional myself. The thing here is that there's no getting anything done when one person is doing all the talking, whether you're in a professional's office or your own living room. Right now, I'm the only one doing the talking (or rather, I was the only one, since I'm trying not to let on just how much I know at this point).
I do ultimately think we'll be alright, but I do have the tendency to worry when I have good reason. It takes years off my life and annoys the living shit out of my husband, but I think it's all for the better.
I beg for honestly, so I think I would've at least heard something about him wanting to be polyamorous. It does pop up in conversation, but never in any context that would make me think he was interested. I like paying attention to things like that. :) He seems to be pretty vanilla with the exception of digging anything you can find on wetset, haha
(I will admit that seeing how many people wanted me to just end it was a little terrifying, but if he'd seen that, I have to imagine it would be effective. A couple of his online accounts disappeared not long after my original post.)
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