In Reply to: Help me understand..... posted by cutie cuddles on April 30, 2004 at 13:20
It's difficult to speak for anyone here about what makes the pee fetish so erotic. But for myself, there's about a dozen or more sensational ways that pee turns me on. The first group would relate to how peeing might very well account for the first sensations that we've experienced in a sexual way... before we even knew what sex was and that makes it more intriguing still. The act of holding it.... is not unlike masturbation and the release is not unlike orgasm. Both are wonderful feelings of relief.
How the panty wetting fetish often starts may date back to days in childhood when we have experienced the rare sight of a wetting during school. This is why the fetish also tends to get a bad rap from some who don't quite understand that it has NOTHING to do with children per se but does recount certain primal or peak experiences we've had during childhood that might produce erotic feelings without us even being aware of it. Some like myself make the association between peeing and those feelings that we have when we desperately need to pee. There are undeniable similarities to the build up of sexual feelings followed by a release during orgasm.
Even the source of ejaculation by some women originates within the vagina and is released thru the urethra. When a woman pees there is a similar release of fluid but yet it's also different. I find that a woman's ways\ of relating to these sensations may be why there is such a varied reaction to the fetish... often to either extreme.... either loving it or finding it disgusting.
The taboo nature of watersports in itself makes it even more intriguing. And then there's the diversity of how women pee that is exciting.... some have a heavy gushing stream that shoots hard and forceful... while others may hiss a light stream... perhaps while she holds her lips spread apart or while squatting down. These are like visual clues that we tie into sex but in a less direct way. The Wetset message board itself seems to be an ever growing forum that describes the many ways people are turned on by peeing, panty wetting and so on.
I've appreciated the many sites that are dedicated to peeing or wetting such as Wet Set and originally Patches Place. It's very cool that you appreciate your boyfriend's coming forward to describe his most intimate interests because there is often a certain intolerance by some who do not share the interest. It's pretty harmless yet it gets such a reaction from everyone be it positive or negative. In some cases, revealing these interests could jeopardize a relationship.
But between more tolerant couples it could create a lifetime bond as it has one a few ocassions for myself.
I could probably write you a top ten list about why peeing is such a turn on...but that would have to be for another post. I could post my personal favorites anyway if anyone would be interested...let me know. Good Luck to you.
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