Posted by Anonymous on October 23, 2000 at 23:30
I have been dating a man for months. He's divorced. I am single. Relationship is good with ups and down like any other.
But he never wanted to spend the night. Never slept over at my place. Never invited me to spend the night at his place.
Needless to say, it always puzzled me.
The other day he gave in.
He slept over.
It was wonderful until....in the middle of the night I woke up and he was not there.
I felt the bed was wet on his side.
He was taking a shower.
I did not know what to do.
After that he acted cold; obviously did not want to talk; would not look at me; tried not to talk to me; it was awkward; i tried to help; i tried to talk; I tried to understand, but I could see he had retreated into his shell and would not come out of it any time soon. Then he left.
He has not called since.
I would like to call him.
If there is something wrong, if he is ill, anything, i want to know. I love him. I want to help, but i am so afraid of hurting his feelings, mostly I am afraid he will feel embarassed.
What do I do????
Please, what do I do??
how can i help?????
Please don't make any jokes. I don't know where to start looking for help.
I don't want to loose him over this!