Posted by rachel on October 09, 2000 at 18:27
In Reply to: Is it a sin? posted by PottyGirl on October 07, 2000 at 17:45
you've gotten "numerous" replies about his disability, which you also mentioned, although you don't think of it with him. i don't think there's any sin in having your fantasies. It falls along the same line as thinking a paticular child is attractive and would be nice to go out with, though it is only a fantasy and not acted out in so much as a handshake.(no yelling, because i'm not a pedaphile. :-). touchy subject on here...). i wouldn't suggest telling him though because: a-he might think you want him and it could change the comfort leval in the friendship 2-rumors could start by something like someone overhearing the convo. 3-if something ever by chance started with you and him provoked by the fantasy, the consequences would be worse for him most likely. rachel
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