Posted by Cay on September 30, 2000 at 16:49
In Reply to: Sow safe is it to talk about.. posted by Anon on September 30, 2000 at 09:24
It seems to me that it is much easier to find women engaged in one form of WS activity or another on the Web than men. This leads me to conclude that women may be more responsive to participating than men.
On the flip side, apparently, it is probably mostly men viewing and being excited by these women.
I'm biased, of course. I can't imagine why a man (as I am) should have any feelings of disgust or embarassment if his sexual partner shows an interest in him in such a way. Granted the opprtunity, I'd accept it with great appreciation!
Again though, the flip side is that people in intimate relationships have different views and values with regard to sexual behavior. Some may be wholly responsive simply out of a want to please and respect. Others, certainly, would never act in ways that are pre-classified as taboo even at the request of their sexual mate.
Bottom line is (strictly my opinion, obviously): ask. Suffer through any ridicule or resistance. The payoff far outweighs the risk, and rejection leaves you where you are now...with just perhaps a stronger sense of self.