Posted by Peewit on September 16, 2000 at 08:59
In Reply to: Which do you prefer? posted by Gary on September 15, 2000 at 22:52
I guess there is a strong element of S/M underlay in the eroticism of wetting accidents, at least, and probably in many peeing and wetting activities. whether you prefer to wet yourself or to watch your partner or a stranger wet may well depend, in part, on which side of the S/M equation you are. This doesn't mean you have to be a full blown S/M freak but I suspect that many people have tendencies to one or the other, or indeed, to both. I'd put myself in the "both" category since I enjoy fantasies both ways.
If you do not identify with this equation it might be worth asking the question substituting sub/dom for S/M. Both are difficult to take on board if you have not previously considered your sexuality in these terms. I know I resisted applying them to myself for a long while, but when I did allow that they might apply to me I began to make sense of a lot of things that turn me on.
I also suspect that there is a difference in the psychology of deliberate sexual peeing/wetting and accidents. Any thoughts?
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