Posted by Matrix on December 03, 1998 at 04:36
In Reply to: question,guys! how did you........ posted by SUBDUDE on December 03, 1998 at 03:02
Well, very few successes in relationships. Plenty of successes in getting girls to discuss their desperation situations, Usually lead a conversation during a time of their need that leads to something like “oh that’s nothing once I…” which tends to tell a tale.
Quick meetings – One night stands etc.
Same as you. Never personally able to bring up the topic but very often able to remove a girl prematurely from a bar especially if she is interested in you. Take her home etc and wait for desperation to set in along the way. Caught a few out this way. There are ways to make this even more successful but I’ll not post them here.
Another successful method for both new or short meetings or for ones that you need to get interested, make them an evening drink, go to bed, wait till morning. Most people need to pee in the morning, it’s just about timing the “foreplay” to interest a person long enough so they won’t leave or, if they have to, you can avoid it.
I have had some success in just telling people but this is tricky and, in my case where desperation is a lot more important than peeing, although I do prefer desperation to end in accidents, telling a girl can ruin the experience.
I have had some failures as well. One girl I had been dating for 12 months never knew of my interest. This was long before I knew it was a common thing and felt guilty about it. One night, while we were camping and had polished off a bottle of wine, she was underneath me and needed to pee. She told me so and I told her to wait because I liked it. I then went on to explain it to her as she got more and more desperate. Eventually she told me to get up as she was about to wet herself, then she made a bee line to the trees. When she came back she was very pissed off and didn’t talk to me the rest of the night saying I was perverted. We didn’t date for much longer. I still enjoyed the experience though. I always think how good it would have been if I refused to let her go, seeing we split up anyway. But alas I’m not the kind of person who can do this so I never have and never will.
Best bet is to take a punt and don’t worry about any failures. Just like trying to meet a girl for sex only. Some will, some wont. Keep trying and never give up.
Matrix
Email: matrix@accsoft.com.au