Posted by Emissary on December 31, 2003 at 17:32 [24.126.50.245]
My New Year's resolution is to start a real-world relationship with one of the women who reads this board. I know that this is the last "closet." Gays can meet in bars, bd/sm have munches and scenes, but for a man and woman who get turned on by pantswetting/messing to meet is almost impossible ... because we make it impossible. We hide and conduct our activities anonymously. Any message board discussing this topic is invaded by hostile flamers who are more interested in venting hatred than seeking a soulmate. The very suggestion that we are a community is ridiculed.
Women who do show up here are chased away in short order, either by the flames on the board or -- if they post an email address -- by tons of mail from the mentally unstable.
I intend, this year, to overcome these formidable obstacles. I know you're out there, hiding, wishing to share what you do in secret as much as I do. We will find each other.
Let's make 2004 our year. :-)
Email: emissary@rock.com