Posted by L.E. on December 10, 2010 at 17:49
In Reply to: Re: Thanks for the advice posted by Jenn on December 10, 2010 at 09:27
It does sound like you need to do it on your own a few more times to get over "performance anxiety"...those false starts your first time may have made it impossible for you with someone watching.
I wouldn't suggest going so far as to stage an accident...but what about asking how he would feel if you did have an accident,at some point?...that might let you know how he feels about you pooping as opposed to doing it himself.(And if he's sincerely negative,rather than appearing to be negative because he's afraid you wouldn't want anything else,you may well continue pooping on your own and leave him to doing it on his own).If it becomes something you share,best that the sharing not have been started by lying,because even if he doesn't know,you will.
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