Posted by CharliesGirl on September 08, 2010 at 12:57 [82.42.191.189]
In Reply to: Why does this board treat women the way it does? posted by Agirl on August 08, 2010 at 04:10
I rarely comment on any posts here for the same reason. I honestly think it's because society teaches that women are never into kinky stuff and that has knock on effects. The main one being that most people simply don't believe any women who come here claiming to be into this fetish. To the other extreme, there are guys that spam any email addresses given out with demands for photos and dates and then get angry when we don't deliver. They don't consider that women might already have partners and simply want to come here for a quick 'fix' like guys do. If you find it difficult getting a partner to agree to a random fetish like this then consider that us women might have the exact same problem (in an otherwise great relationship). We don't want to drop a good thing and come running to you just because we share this one fetish, so please don't act so offended when we tell you so! I think 90% of the regulars here have a regualr life with wives, girlfriends or whatever that they are happy with. They just don't have this one little thing, so they need to get it online.
To be fair, I don't think the people here are quite as bad as they used to be (I've been a regular lurker here since I was 15, although I visit other sites more often these days). It's normally the same few people that screw things up for the otherwise genuine guys. I do think having a seperate forum for the women might entice a few more regular contributers, but I've heard that request for a few years now and I don't expect things to change. Other sites offer that option to women anyway.
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