Posted by zorroabdaddy on January 19, 2007 at 22:09 [209.74.60.162]
I draw a parallel between Chivalry and Infantilism. That may sound strange, but there are a lot of similarities between the two. Chivalry deals with respect for your enemies, friends, acquaintances, family, and the love of your life. Respect is the dictating force behind your actions. To summarize, everyone knows the difference between right and wrong. Chivalry leads you to do what is right, even when you know that “doing what is wrong” is a quicker easier alternative. By doing what is right, you learn to respect everyone on a much more profound level. You become even more involved in their lives and you truly care about them and their well-being.
Infantilism is a lifestyle / interest / fetish / etc. where you play a role different from that which you are, but through it all, you begin to become the role that you are playing. As a caregiver to an adult baby, you become their parent, and truly care for them.
My interest is being a “Daddy” to an adult baby girl, and as such I long to care for her, and give attention to her with as much sincerity as if she really were my child.
Being as honesty is regarded as a cornerstone in the structure of a healthy relationship (as well it should), I find need and purpose in finding a girl who has the desire to role play as a baby. I view it as a tender, loving experience that I’d like to have with a female.
There is no discipline, spanking, bondage, etc. I’m not into that, and never will be because I view it as being wrong, and therefore without Chivalry. I also do not like to take the AB experience out into the public. It is a discreet, personal, in-private-only experience between (in my case) a male and a female. I’m unmarried, and have no children (but would like to someday). I seek an AB girl to become friends with first, and allow time for a relationship to develop.
The diaper, itself, has always been an interesting thing to me. It’s scent, It’s crinkling noise. But beyond that is a role that a girl plays when she is dressed in a diaper, and other baby clothes. When she is given a pacifier, or a bottle, or a teddy bear, or a blanket, she assumes a role of dependency. She allows herself to be “taken care of”. When she is laid down in a crib to sleep, or fed from a high chair, or left to play in a playpen, or bathed in a bath tub, she is giving control over to her caregiver. Her reward is a feeling such as what she used to feel as a little girl. As an adult baby, she can revisit those emotions. She is able to release herself from adult responsibility for a while. For her it is very liberating and relaxing.
For her caregiver, it’s a feeling of love and welcomed responsibility. He is the protector and it is his role to watch over her. It’s about baby objects, role playing and the meaning of those roles, and make-believe. I would like to meet and befriend a girl who would like to be “babied”.
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