Posted by zorroabdaddy on January 19, 2007 at 22:06 [209.74.60.162]
It’s the small moments that intrigue me the most about an AB relationship with a baby girl. While role-playing isn’t a typical trait of a (biological) male and (biological) female association, there are distinctions in it that make it attractive.
The caregiver (the Daddy) creates an environment that is safe, secure, and engaging for the baby girl. He is the protector, and she is the protected. They become the center of each other’s worlds.
She feels safe. In a setting that provides the attention she craves, and enables her to live out a dream of acting like a little girl without judgment or ridicule, she delights in the comforts that surround her. In simpler terms, she can act like a girl, feel like a girl, and be a baby girl in a situation that not only invites it, but desires her to “let her hair down” and be comfortable.
At the same time, he is able to be a knight of Chivalry. It is every decent, virtuous guy’s aspiration to make a girl happy. By giving her every bit of contentment, he feels good about himself. It is the finest, most rewarding way to overcome his insecurities. This is an admittance that most guys don’t like to make or even talk about. They’ve been “taught” that insecurity is so very (stereotypically) non-masculine. He is able to defeat such anxiety (without having to talk about it) through actions of “providing”. It is instinct that offers him reason to do so. In simpler terms, he can act like a guy, feel like a guy, and be a guy in a “world” that he creates to be safe.
But what are the “small moments” that I’m talking about?
- It’s being able to look in her eyes and feel a deep-rooted love that’s hard to put to words, (but I’ll try): They not only feel the natural laws of attraction as influenced by gender, but they bond in spirit.
- It’s being able to tell what she’s thinking, what she’s upset about, why she’s happy, and what she needs, respectively: When she lies sleeping in your arms and whimpers while putting an uncomfortable look on her face, it’s about knowing that her right arm just fell asleep and her feet are uncovered.
- It’s assuming the role of a baby and allowing herself to be seen and addressed as an infant.: This is a part of the AB role-playing (not so much DL), and it requires a rapport between two individuals.
- It’s knowing that lovers can’t be lovers without first being friends, and it’s knowing what that means and what that requires.
- It’s realizing that the baby girl is your responsibility and it’s about putting that above yourself.
In the end, it’s about a girl and a guy who both have a love for the same things.
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