Posted by Outrider on July 12, 2006 at 15:11 [12.64.30.179]
In Reply to: Love Does Not Exist posted by Daddy J on July 03, 2006 at 10:37
Normally, I wouldn't reply but it's clear you're really frustrated. First thing is first, definitely unplug. Looking for what you need on-line isn't the way to go. Go out and focus on real world interaction and relationships. This is an excellent way to build the social skills and empathy you'll need to find the relationship that will fit. I also think your expectations are unrealistic. Whether it's the right job, or the right car or the right relationship it takes work and sacrifice, nothing good comes easily. Being on-line tends to make us forget that we have to do hard work to get what we want. I would also look at what you are asking from the little girls perspective. You're asking them to give up a measure of independence on a level that is judged totally unnacceptable by society. That is not an easy thing for any of them. Ask them, they'll tell you (see above posts). I'm also not saying what you're feeling is invalid. You have a right to be frustrated. Giving up completely is probably not the answer though.
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