Posted by Barbie's Daddy on July 09, 2006 at 14:33 [68.55.169.122]
This is my first post to this forum but have been enjoying many of the thoughts and experiences the Daddies and little girls so generously continue to share.
This forum more closely mirrors the lifestyle and relationships I have chosen for myself than any I have found on the internet.
Barbie is the second Daddy/Baby relationship I have totally committed myself to although there were a number of other Little Girl experiences over the years.
Barbie's big girl facade is that of a thirty something very accomplished professional whose vibrant personality and very disarming charm are equaled only by her stunning beauty and modesty about her compact size 0/2 little body.
Barbie will be spending a long weekend at my home at the end of the month necessitating her clear understanding of what my rules are reguarding her crib time.
Because she is like any bright maniuplating 7 year old who still needs to be kept in diapers, I continue to sense a less than totally submissive acceptance to the Crib Rules despite the obvious consequences she posted. So, to be sure, her accepting of these rules is indeed a work in progrss.
THE RULES
When at home, all naps (1 hour+) will be in her crib.
This gives her a daily "dose" of who she really is and yes 2 year olds do take naps every day. Because of her energy level and stress in her job, this daily "power nap"
will keep her fresh until bedtime and gives me a much needed break to do other things for her that I can't when she's awake.
Substitue Playpen
I don't have a playpen for her yet since what I want for her will need to be custom made.
I have a full workout facility in my home which a need to spend 1 1/2 hours, three times a week in without having to watch her. I have a tv in her nursery for cartoons, a plethora of crib toys plus all of her dollies will be in her crib with her while Daddy gets his workout in.
Time-out Area
I hope I will not have to impose this one on her to often.
Where She Sleeps At Night
She's giving me major grief about not being in Daddy's bed every night.
This right she must earn by being a good girl and is only given on occasion. I've assured her that if she wakes up crying and is to frightened to be by herself, Daddy will
change her and bring her to my bed. I have also put a twin bed in her nursery for me to use during times when she doesn't want to be by herself, is being very fussey or is sick.
She simply must understand that Daddy does not endorse allowing small children to regularlly sleep in their parent's bed.
A final thought.. Barbie is in so many ways, still very much an infantile little girl. A little girl who can only be happy with a Daddy who will love and care for her as a baby. If I'm going to be a credible Daddy then I must consistantly create a very firm structure for her that makes diapers and putting her to bed in a crib mandatory.
I'm sure other Daddies with little girls like mine will agree..we don't really have any other choice.
Cordially
Baby Barbie's Daddy