Posted by Kali on July 04, 2006 at 03:46 [68.79.207.125]
In Reply to: Re: Love Does Not Exist posted by lulu on July 03, 2006 at 18:11
Lulu's right. Keep your emotions in check. Why do you let a relationship build and grow for so long without moving it into the real world? Usually, when people put off meeting in person, there's a reason. Granted, there's such a thing as meeting too soon... but when you start shelling out money for webcams and claiming you're in love - you've moved into a dangerous territory if you haven't met in person yet.
Of course... I've had my own fair share of relationships that have gone bad. I used to be a "Why me? Why does this keep happening to me?!" person, too. Then I got to the root of the problem - it WAS me. I was getting into the same situation, over and over again, because I was actually afraid of getting deeply involved with someone. So I sought out impossible situations and impossible people, all without even realizing I was doing it.
So ask yourself, honestly... WHY do you let these relationships go on so long, and invest so much of yourself, without checking to see if the relationship holds up in the harsh light of reality? Could it be that you're only falling so far so fast because the relationship IS only online and not something more? It's easy to say "No" to that right off the bat, because of course you think you want something more... but are you SURE you do?
P.S. Love does exist. It's all around you, if you just look for it. Maybe it's not that perfect diaper girl you're looking for... but it might be a close friend who's always been there for you or a partner who's willing to experiment with your fetish, even if it isn't their #1 thing. Just keep your eyes open for it and catch it when it comes... and stop idealizing it as a perfect diaper girl of your dreams. Not to mention that there are PLENTY of women out there who might really like this... and just aren't on boards for it. So go out in the world and mingle.
P.P.S. Sorry for rambling... I get long-winded at times ;)
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