Posted by almost there on November 14, 2006 at 23:27 [67.68.199.220]
My wife of seven years has absolutely no interest in ageplay and diapers. While we were still dating I told her about my spanking and scholl girl fetish. She indulged me and threw herself 100% into the role. After that first time I asked her what she thought and she said it wasn't really her "thing" and she wasn't interested in exploring it further. Not surprisingly I was dissapointed at first. But we came to a unique an very satisfying agreement. The understanding we came to was simple. If we fought or argued, and she was clrearly in the wrong, we resolved the issue with a spanking. She would be required to dress in a schoolgirl kilt and knee socks, and pigtails and lay accross my lap for a spanking and then sent to stand in the corner. To her, this was a VERY REAL punishment, which she did not enjoy. (although she did enjoy the make up sex afterwards.) The fact that there was this element of reality made it so much better for me. SlowIy I began modifying her punishments. They began to include, shaving, or rectal thermometers. And her kilt was replaced with a pink babydoll with matching ribbons in her hair. All of this with her approval, she is never forced to do anything.
Recently I have wanted to diaper her as well. But she refuses. I even offered to suspend the dreaded spanking if she spent the night in diapers. She considered it but still said no. Her main objection was tha she wouldn't know how to behave in them. If I expected her to act like a baby, she had no idea how. And I didn't have an answer for her. I have no experience with ABDLs beyond a number of websites and generally people involved in roleplay have give their roles a fair bit of thought.
What do I tell her? What's my next step?
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