Posted by Daddy Tom on August 30, 2006 at 08:21 [152.163.100.7]
In Reply to: Lost My LG posted by SFLDaddy on August 29, 2006 at 11:31
Hello everyone.
i have been single since mid june when my bbygrl/gf ran off on me. im fully aware of how delicate Daddy/babygirl relationships can be. i have had the privledge of being a Daddy to little ones and know the happieness that comes with having a little one. i havent found "the one" yet but like anything worth while it takes time and effort.
i have never made a connection too deeply with someone out of state. i have never closed myself off to the idea. a few years ago i found myself putting way too much time into a little one who turned into a dead end. it was hard not thinking about making a trip to meet her, but i used my better judgement and im glad i didnt.
overall i try to focus my energy toward finding someone closer. long distance relationships are hard enough without adding the complicated Daddy/little one dynamic. years ago i was decieved by a local little one. she contacted me online and we began chatting regularly. we spoke on the phone many times and exchanged photos. when we finally met she wasnt anywhere near who she described herself to be. then almost a year later she contacted me again, having forgot we met, and started again with her phony song and dance.
what keeps me going is knowing what its like to have a little one. period. being a Daddy is important to me and i know its something i cannont deny. i have been played like many Daddies and little ones for that matter. i choose to keep my head up and continue on. the "game players" are the ones missing out. i refuse to hide behind a screen name. i will keep putting myself out there. thats the only way a true connection can happen but it also opens you up to disappointment. thats life and choose to enjoy mine.
thanks for taking the time to read my post.
good luck to you all
Dont Dream It, Be It.
Daddy Tom:)
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