Posted by daddy-o on August 26, 2006 at 04:50 [69.210.197.150]
In Reply to: ???????? posted by little one lost on August 25, 2006 at 07:08
I am an older daddy, and truth be told, most of my interactions with LGs came before the internet evolved into the social network as we currently know it. Although I met some women through blind ads in sex-oriented print personals, most of my relationships began with face-to-face meetings.
I can tell you that, except for the lack of the pervasive anonymity that the web provides, the success/failure of both direct and online couplings hinges on similar factors.
Lack of mutual physical attraction. Lack of emotional compatibility. Too little common ground in sexual fantasies/interests. Inability to commit, to a relationship, to a meeting, to anything at all that is important. Deceit. Infidelity. Absence of self-awareness (no clue as to what one truly wants). Standards so stringent as to all but guarantee a lifetime of frustration. Such absolute terror at actually taking real steps to enjoy what one has long craved and ejaculated to during private reverie, that they resist all attempts by well-intentioned partners to facilitate fulfillment.
The list is endless, and each Daddy or LG could add their own multiple, personally specific reasons.
I have enjoyed some success in being with women IRL for extended periods and sharing various versions of this Daddy/LG scenario, but they have ultimately all ended, and typically without any real closure, sometimes for reasons related to our sexual dynamic, sometimes for unrelated personal conflicts.
Although I have met numerous Daddys and LGs online, only a few have led to the face-to-face that most of us seek. One aspect of this online interaction that is significantly different than traditional means of courting is the way it insulates people from accountability, from exercising common civilities, from the risks involved in being dishonest. In addition, it seems that a growing number of surfers utilize their fave sites and chat rooms to provide a home to their virtual identity, which often bears no resemblance to their real world ID. They derive abundant self-stimulation without any intent to truly involve themselves with the souls they meet in the process. In short, many of the people who claim to seek a partner, will never, ever pursue an actual encounter. They have spouses, children, fear of exposure, fear of becoming who they wish to be. So they dream through their keyboards, leading countless others into dead ends.
It is not an entirely bleak and barren scene. There are indeed many who have found partners online, including via Daddy's Girl. And there are legitimate seekers who remain unattached.
So, the potential is there, little one lost, for you to find your Daddy beautiful, inside and out. While I would encourage you to continue searching and screening online, if you live near any metropolitan area that hosts a long-standing BD/SM club, especially one with well-organized "socials," it might prove rewarding to contact them. Select men in that "umbrella" scene may also possess the Daddy qualities that you desire.
Best wishes on your search. In the meantime, I do hope that you are finding plenty of opportunity to wet, as all little baby girls should - under the guidance of a Daddy or not :)
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