Posted by SFLDaddy on August 19, 2006 at 20:39 [69.167.72.140]
In Reply to: hi posted by babygirl86 on August 19, 2006 at 17:49
Glad you are trying to enjoy the lifestyle! While I am very happily committed to my own l'il gurl, I'd like to offer you some good advice. Most alleged "daddies" lack experience. I have about 10 years of it. Once they become experienced, they should (but maybe will not) realize that while this is a very sexually-satisfying lifestyle (in fact, more than most lifestyles), it is NOT about "getting into her" in the traditional sense.
Many l'il gurls and ABs I've been chatting with, and have gotten to know personally, come from a background where they endured physical and/or mental abuse, usually by a family member, so if anything, these girls need the touch of a strong, yet gentle and loving daddy. And whil many girls crave discipline, daddies do not discipline to create pain. In fact, a good couple sets limits beforehand, so that she may enjoy the act of discipline, yet with its intensite limited right to her pleasure point (this is hard to describe so please try to figure out what I am saying).
I love changing diapers, and that act is naturally coupled with cleaning her off, powdering her,keeping her shaved (if she likes), and then much stroking, cuddling, and even a bottle-feeding. This brings the couple remarkably closer both physically and spiritually.
Some gurls also enjoy breastfeeding from a "mommy," and tghis is not necessarily a bisexual or lesbian act; it is just a part of the loving nd nurturing this wonderful lifestyle offers. Both daddies and mommies should spend a good deal of time nurturing their gurls.
Mine and I are deeply, deeply, deeply in lovbe, as well as in lust with one another, because we continually seek out that proper balance.
Be careful and be patient; hardly anyone scores a home run his or her first time at bat. Every failed person ou find leads you one step closer to finding the person of your dreams. It hardly took me a few days to find my wonderful lady, but I persevered almost every day, so my waiting time was cut markedly.
Long answer to a short post, I know (LOL) but I hope I've helped you even a little bit. :)
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