Posted by nurturingsir on August 14, 2006 at 14:26 [65.60.142.51]
In Reply to: I always wondered..... posted by bebe on August 13, 2006 at 04:14
very good point.
Myself I don't say much usually on this board, but I do find the "I'm a daddy, any babygirls in xxxx, yyy" posts or worse "daddy needs FT babygirl, you will be diapered, spanked bathed and treated like a baby fulltime, I lost my last one...", rather annoying or in the latter case, disturbing. I think the age thing is a sensitive issue because many are older guys that are sensitive about their age, so they feel better with a younger women sometimes, makes them feel younger.
I think ab girls are cute, and I enjoy being a daddy/bigbrother, but I'm also a person, and I would hope they are too. The idea of a fulltime ab, worries me, because they miss out on other parts of life. I think the caretakers job shouldn't be just to get off on the fact that they having a mate in a diaper, but to enjoy helping someone feel good getting in the headspace and taking care of them. Likewise it shouldn't be the caretakers job to be a very interesting person to entertain the ab thats bored with life. Both people should find each other interesting and not just physicaly because ones in diapers.
I've talked to ab girls online, and many want to rp/cyber all the time, occasionaly I'll do that, but I'm not really into online RP, but I know that it makes them happy, but I get tired of the only-cyberrp, or only-ab as a fetish group. I'm more interested in conversation. On the otherside of the fence, I've also tried starting email conversations with ab girls in the dd profiles, but after they find I'm not living near them, they stop talking, or some never answer at all. Personaly even as a daddy, I'm not interested in RP unless I understand, get to know, and feel comfortable with you as a person first. As an occasional AB it was even moreso, I was very picky about my caretakers.
I'm not really into brat play, though occasional hand spankings arnt a problem, but I have emotional issues with paddeling people.
I'm not really looking for a mate here, I'm just friendly and like taking care of ab boys and girls. Thus the caretaker role suits me very well. But even caretakers get burnt out if it's ft.
Email: nurturingsir@yahoo.com