Posted by GentleDaddy on October 06, 2006 at 04:44 [24.45.184.235]
I have a LG/AB, and things have been great, but, for whatever the reason, she is going thru a bout of severe depression. She is rejecting everything we enjoy intimately and basically just sleeps all day. When we talk about what's going on, she says she isn't opposed to diapers, powdering, cuddling, etc, etc, but that it all seems like so much work, and prep, that once she starts thinking about it, it completely kills the mood.
I don't know what to do, for me, as a Daddy, I care very much for her and want what is best for her. However, again, as a Daddy, it's somewhat ingrained in me to take care of my LG/AB, it's how I feel most connected to her. That connection is gone because she's blocking it, what do I do? She's on anti-depressants now, she's in therapy, and without sounding too selfish, what about me? There are nights that are so bad she tells me I should leave her, that I'm the perfect man/Daddy and deserve better.