Posted by bucksDaddy on December 19, 2004 at 06:15 [212.135.182.212]
In Reply to: What do you do in your diapers? posted by Ape on December 18, 2004 at 22:35
Well, when I first read this I thought it was a very simple question to answer. And I was merely going to say "depends on the individual", as everyone has their own individual turn-ons and turn-offs.
This being a DG list, separate from the ABDL list, I'd always assumed that not everyone here plays AB games, and that there are many here who play much older age-play ages. And whilst many here may well play "accident" games (this list is hosted by Wetset after all :), I'm not sure how many make use of nappies.
For me as an age-play father figure, it depends entirely on the age-play age of the DG I'm looking after, and what they're into. But as I tend to play with DGs and not DLs, nappies aren't always even involved. If they are, then they are just a part of an entire scenario we've set up.
If I'm playing with a DG who is also an AB, then nappies are not even a major focus of attention for both of us, except at change time itself. Because ABies *need* to wear nappies, they are just part of the overall AB requirements of being cared for, nurtured and protected. The fact that DG wets/soils herself is considered natural in this sort of roleplay - and as it's Daddies job to perform the clean up job, it's not as though DG even has to get her hands dirty.
If I'm playing with an older DG who is toilet trained by day, but has occasional accidients, and maybe wets the bed, then there is the emotional side that comes out from discussing her little "problem". Thus nappies might become the focus of attention if that's how we decide we're going to approach solving/helping the problem in the short term.
Obviously, for a DG who's wearing them, they add to the emotional side of feeling small and vulnerable, especially if she has to discuss them and her problem with a slightly patronising father figure.
So, my feeling on this is that it's not what you do in your nappy that counts, it's the emotions that you feel as a result.
Regards,
bucksDaddy.
Email: paul1@sweetp.net