Posted by procrastinating linguist on November 18, 2005 at 12:42 [66.28.235.62]
In Reply to: Re: culture crossovers and mixing posted by DR on September 26, 2005 at 05:59
If a majority of the little girls and daddies on this board wanted an environment that did not include words like "slave" is that really the same as saying your kink is sick? I think not. It is entirely possible that there is a version of kink that does not include the things that you and yours enjoy. And the people who prefer that version have every right to a board that allows them to discuss their subspace as you do. I cannot disagree more that more extreme forms of dominance are necessarily a part of d/lg. In fact I think this very fragile state of mind on the part of the sub can be used by a mysoginist (sp) to work out his fetish desires at the expense of his partner's vulnerability. If a woman is attracted to this fetish percisely because she wants to fill the void of not having had a nurturing father (and admittedly that is not everyone)the last thing she needs is an authoritarian who insists that she obey and beats or canes her when she does not. Again not to say that that is what you do. But posts like yours make me not want to come here because being here is like entering into subspace a little to read the words "daddy" and "slave" in the same sentence is rather wrenching.
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