Posted by Ann on September 26, 2005 at 13:01 [81.76.38.127]
In Reply to: Re: culture crossovers and mixing posted by DR on September 26, 2005 at 05:59
This is something I keep disagreeing with people about. It makes me wonder if thats because they've never tried it?
Always loved the fantasy of being baby and having a Daddy figure to look after me. Never considered for a moment that that meant I could do what i liked or that I should get my own way all the time. To me, Daddy is there to look after, love and guide me. Sometimes that means he has to teach me right from wrong, and correct behaviour if necessary. ie discipline.
Have to say, although Daddy wasn't fond of the idea originally, after trying it, I think I can say with confidence that he loves that aspect of things now. For me it's great, as I have complete confidence in his authority and the fact that he is in control. This adds to the feeling of safety and security within the relationship. So apart from discipline being sexy and fun, it also a key part of the Daddy or dominant role for me, and I see it not as abusive but as part of the loving nurturing aspect.
If Daddy didn't love me or care what I did or how I behaved, he wouldn't bother to discipline me or set boundaries, which is what all babies need. Personally, I love it, being spanked is a big turn on, but also being spanked and told off for bad behaviour means handing over complete control and having complete trust in Daddy.
Knowing he has complete control is a huge turn on, and later, when curled up in his arms with a bottle, feel so very safe and secure. Nothing feels more natural, really don't understand why some people have a problem with discipline, or aspects of BDSM in relation to Daddy / Baby roles.
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