Posted by Anais on September 13, 2005 at 15:12 [69.203.150.1]
In Reply to: Daddy/daughter relationships posted by Thomas C. on September 13, 2005 at 09:59
OK I'm going to be contentious. While there are some valid points I find your post generalises a little over much.
1) You stated: "When a woman want’s to regress, that is first and foremost her aim. If she simply wanted sex, I am sure she would be vocal about it." Women have sexual needs as well as men and some women have voracious sexual appetites! I was married when I first went looking for a daddy and I wanted a daddy-LG relationship WITH sex. Women have sexual drives too and as I was married I needed absoulte discretion and no strings. Being an LG is a very sexual thing for me. Other women might be more attracted to just nurturing and that's fine but you can't generalise, in a way your post is just perpetuating a myth that women are more interested in nurturing that sex.
2) Personally I don't think I grew up too quickly. Perhaps many people born in the 1970's may feel the same way as me, kids were still kids then. Your comments seem more applicable to today's generation to me. To me it is more likely that wanting to be nurtured or to nurture comes from fast-paced adult lives. I like to totally devolve control to daddy for a few hours at a time as a way of switching off and recharging my batteries after a hectic work week.
Off the top of my head I think the lifestyle is taboo for following reasons:
i) Some people are uncomfortable with the idea of an apparently incestuous relationship even in play.
ii) Many people get upset by the idea of people getting off with something involving pee and in some cases poo.
iii) Some people are uncomfortable with the idea of a dominant-submissive relationship confusing it as some kind of abusive situation (even if it doesn't involve any BDSM activities) or at the very least not understanding why the submissive person would give up control.