Posted by Thomas C on September 11, 2005 at 05:29 [69.157.24.218]
hi all. First off I would like to thank Bethan for such a wonderful effort.
The Daddy/daughter lifestyle, to me is not a fetish or kink as some people would have it be exposed. It is a lifestyle where a man has missed a need/instinct in life to nurture, and a gurl has missed her nurturing. Of course as adults, the two parties are oftentimes (is that a word?) complete and whole partners. In my opinion that just deepens the bond and love. I would have a gurl either as just my 'lil gurl', with no partnership outside me nurturing and taking care of her,or in full partnership. I do believe in rare and special cases a man just delights and brightens up having a lil gurl around. There is nothing so wonderful.
As for passing. This is so much a fun aspect as i have read and discussed with some of my new friends here. Costuming is so important in 'passing'. The right look can simply make a gurl look as young as she feels if she has the right face and build. This of course is for when you are out. In private it makes no difference how old she is.
my #1 passed for a school girl, but was much older, but the wy she dressed and carried herself shouted '16'. it was all in the costuming. It is all 'illusion', such as my 20 year old who could pass for 11. She played the part well. To my first point, she never had a father figure and wanted to know what it was like. Guys don't mess with 'daddy's girl' like they will with a girlfriend...
All in all, to me this is a true and genuine loving lifestyle, not a mere fetish. I see it becoming more and more popular. Many of my friends (all respectable guys) have no problem talking about their 'lifestyles', and I have no problem with this one. i do NOT hide it or keep it private and they know what to expect when i have my lil gurl. So, if it is a true lifestyle and you love your lil gurl, then live it to the fullest and don't hide it.
CattDaddy
Email: cpurrs@yahoo.com