Posted by Anais on September 10, 2005 at 22:08 [69.203.150.1]
In Reply to: Re: what qualities do you look for in a daddy posted by Daddy David on September 10, 2005 at 03:24
I agree as well, that's one of the best things about my relationship with daddy, for instance I can have nothing on but a wet nappy and yet we'll be discussing something "grown up" like investments, or current affairs or what our budget is for something.
My only real physical quality in a daddy is height, it helps to feel small if he is a lot taller than you. I also like the fact that daddy and I are a May-December couple. He's such an old stick-in-the-mud sometimes, just because of the age difference, it's very fatherly. Other than that what has been very interesting is that physically daddy is a lot thinner and a lot blonder than my ex-husband and all my ex-boyfriends. He's not my usual "type" but the first time we played together the interaction was just electrifying and I was comfortable going quite a lot further than I had intended to.
The bottom line for me is trust, I know he'd never go too far in play and I also know that he'd never act maliciously and expose this side of me to the detriment of other parts of my life. Also I know I can suggest absolutely anything and it will be met with an open-mind and he knows he can do the same thing, we both also know that there won't be any awkwardness or weirdness if the other person isn't into a suggestion, most of the time though we're both like "oh that would just be too cool".
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