Posted by DR on August 29, 2005 at 22:23 [67.83.76.91]
In Reply to: Re: My BabyGirl Missy posted by Outsider on August 29, 2005 at 09:00
Outsider wrote:
"You know what, my Daddy used to say he only punished me because he loved me. It's bullshit, complete bullshit. You are manipulative and abusive and I find it pathetic and astonishing that a board like this can condone someone who is carrying out child abuse (whether it's on an adult pretending to be a child or not)."
The entire picture is becoming much clearer now. You had a bad experience with a Daddy, who punished you, and now you're going to condemn anyone who you deem acts similarly.
Let's see if I can construct a similarly weak argument. Hmmmm... I once had a chihuahua that bit me, therefore all chihuahua's are terrible, man-biting dogs. I once had a Honda that broke down all the time, therefore if you want a good car, you should never buy a Honda. I once ate a salad and got sick, therefore salads are an unhealthy food choice. This one time, at band camp...
Look, you had a bad experience. I empathize. I think we've all had bad experiences with kink. But you're taking out *YOUR* aggressions on Matt and babygirl, who have absolutely *nothing* to do with your heartache, and are simple bystanders here to the eruption of Mount Outsider.
You're going to have to get used to the fact that many kinky people out there, and here on this list, enjoy humiliation, punishment, objectification, depersonalization, dehumanization, and other forms of hardcore BDSM. If you can't handle that idea right now, then maybe its best that you leave the board for a spell, and come back when you've learned to control your aggressions towards these kinks.
Its a wide kink world out there. If you can't tolerate it, don't expect anyone else to tolerate your kinks either.