Posted by Mbob. on June 23, 2005 at 16:18 [64.219.87.143]
I just seem to be on a posting frenzy, I figured I might start up the "Thoughts, Mantras and Ideas" subjects again.
I recently talked to a local little girl (though we weren't at all what each other were looking for, at least not what I was looking for.) She brought up some interesting points that I figured I might just share.
There is a big difference from being a Sub, and being an Ageplaying little girl.
Here are the ones I have figured out, correct me with your own opinions seeing as how I'm the most inexperienced Daddy here.
There is a much deeper emotional factor in Ageplay that you can't duplicate through just general Master/Sub play. At least so far as I've seen. There is a much greater emotional attachment. Sure you need alot of emotional and physical attachment with being a Sub, but being a little girl encompasses much deeper feelings of trust. You can get deeper into a psyke that you don't see anywhere else.
Which brings me to my question.
At what point does Ageplay stop being BDSM style 'kink' and start being a sort of lifestyle that revolves around these feelings and emotions?
And from that I ask one more question.
Is it alright for those feelings/actions ect. of a Daddy to pass on to the little girl even when not playing?
My thoughts run as such.
There is a deeper sense of trust for the Daddy in True ageplay, as a sense of more than just a kink for pleasure. True there is some sexual gratification in Ageplay, though at some points it's not just about said gratification. I have found that the more you play, and the more the girl trusts you, the deeper she'll go, and the more she relies on you to be a moral and emotional bastion.
The entire relationship in my mind depends on the girl, the daddy is still quite important, but it's the girl that sets the pace for everything.
Which brings me to my final (I promise) and most enjoyable paragraph.
For the girl, I can't excatly tell what they enjoy most about it, I can speculate but without actually having done it myself (scary thought) but I'm sure it differs for every girl participating.
For the Daddy. Its all about the love. We do it because we enjoy the type of care we're able to give. It differs entirely from daddy to daddy I surmise, but the generalization can pretty much be the same. Sure we like to see our girl doing various things that make us chuckle, but we do it ultamately for them. It's something that we like, and they like, and it just fits. Like some sort of odd pig-tailed puzzle box.
Now I know that was rambling, but thoughts, questions, opinions, statements?