Posted by Mbob AKA. Philosophical Mbob on June 22, 2005 at 12:10 [64.219.87.215]
In Reply to: Maybe You Just Need Better Tapes? posted by L.E. on June 22, 2005 at 06:34
Tisha,
Okay, here goes.
First off, most of the appeal of diapers comes when you have someone to change you.
Technically you're just doing Diaperlover stuff. Though quite amusing, it's not exactly what you're looking for. The diaper is meant as another bond that the Daddy/LG can share/create. I'm not saying that diapers aren't fun. They can be if you approach them in the right way.
1. Unless you actually like wetting, it's not going to be as fun for you doing it alone. In truth there are some plausable benifits to diapers, but for this 'kink' the best come with an actual daddy.
2. The warmth most people talk about while in a diaper doesn't happen with urine, it happens with just leaving the diaper on, not wetting it, not masterbating in it, but just letting natural body heat take over. Like on those cold nighs when your body heats up to the right temperature and you wake up feeling all warm and fuzzy.
3. It takes an adjustment period. I went through it with my two girls, and it'll just take time. I slowly "Reverse potty trained" them, moving from the pullup brands to eventual diaper and so forth. It's not something that's instantly enjoyable unles you're a DL or AB to begin with.
4. Try staying in your little headspace longer. Plan out a Friday night or something to that effect. (Or whenever you have a morning after to just sit and enjoy) Just lay there, do whatever you do to sit into your headspace and just enjoy it. Watch some cartoons, eat some Captain Crunch, but just wear it. No peeing, no masterbation (if you can help it) no nothing.
5. Overall, the diaper does represent some social taboos, which you've seem to have enjoyed using as a focal point. A true Little girl (who is young enough in spirit) will see nothing wrong with the diaper. Now I'm not saying to go out and play on a playground in only a diaper and a t-shirt, that's just moronic and asking to get arrested for something made up and a trip to the mental asylum.
6. Mabey, just mabey diapers aren't for you. At least not in the long run. It's possible, on the other hand it may be something you want to do, but still need to find what you like about them. One of my girls didn't particularly care for the diapers except when I was powdering her. (she loved that) and when there were long lines at the bathroom (ha).
So that's my ....six cents. I figure it might help you, it might not. I may just sound like a rambling buffoon, or I may sound like a wisened enlightened individual. Hopefully the latter instead of the former.
If you would like more personalized advice, or some tips and tricks,you've got my e-mail adresse.
Mbob, Philosophical Master of Disaster.
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